Age gap relationships - namely, women dating older men - seem to be something that fascinate a lot of people rightly or wrongly. Here, 8 women who have dated wayyy older guys explain what it's really like. The age gap is 21 years - I know, it seems very scandalous. I finished high school and went straight into university, I now have a stable teaching job. During the beginning of us living together, it felt as though I was a ghost in his home; he would be busy with work, yelling on the phone and I'd just be trying to zone it all out, but [now] whenever we're together, he answers the phone and tells people he'll call them right back and that he's with someone very important. So, in that respect, I guess I did feel as though I was "setting up shop" but now that I have a sense of completion and pride of who I'm with and our personal, yet, intertwined life journeys, I'm no longer a lost girl looking for some place to rent in someone else's world. Her and I moved in together straight out of high school, when I told her I was going to move in with him, it tore our friendship apart.
Is this the real reason older men date younger women?
Women who date older men | What it's really like being in an age gap relationship
15 Men Discuss The Difference Between Sex With A Younger And Older Woman
I find it genuinely bizarre that having sex with a man 20 years older than you is still taboo. During dinner with a friend recently, she asked me, with one eyebrow raised, what I think the main difference is between sleeping with older men versus younger men. Their grimaces are the giveaway. If a guy has grey hair on his head, is it a surprise if he has grey hair downstairs? And better that than if he'd been dying them.
Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. Myths of Desire. When an older man is in an intimate relationship with a younger woman, we rarely bat an eye.